Staying Positive in a Negative World
- Dr. Tom LaHue
- Sep 18
- 3 min read
Updated: Oct 7

Negativity is contagious. When the people around you are constantly complaining, criticizing, or carrying a dark cloud over their heads, it’s easy to find yourself getting pulled down into the same mindset. But positivity is just as contagious—and you get to choose which “virus” you carry.
“Don’t let their storm drown your sunshine.”
1. Guard Your Atmosphere
You may not control other people’s attitudes, but you do control your atmosphere. Think of yourself as a thermostat, not a thermometer. A thermometer reacts to the environment—it rises and falls depending on what’s happening around it. A thermostat sets the temperature. Decide to set the emotional climate, not just reflect it.
Catchphrase: “Be the thermostat, not the thermometer.”
2. Filter, Don’t Absorb
Negativity is like smoke—if you sit in it long enough, it clings to you. That’s why you need mental filters. Listen with empathy, but don’t absorb the weight of every complaint. Recognize when a conversation is unhelpful and gently redirect.
Catchphrase: “Hear it, don’t inhale it.”

3. Speak Life Out Loud
Complaints are loud, so encouragement must be louder. Practice gratitude, celebrate small wins, and speak hope when others can only see problems. Often, the loudest voice in the room sets the tone—make sure it’s yours.
Catchphrase: “Be louder with light than they are with darkness.”
4. Anchor Yourself Daily
If you want to stay positive in a negative world, you need roots that go deep. Read, pray, meditate, journal—do whatever strengthens your inner world so you aren’t swayed by every storm. People who are grounded can stand firm when everyone else is shaken.
Catchphrase: “Deep roots don’t fear the wind.”
5. Choose Joy as Rebellion
Positivity isn’t pretending everything’s fine—it’s choosing not to let negativity rule you. Complaining is easy; joy is an act of rebellion. When you smile, when you encourage, when you refuse to sink—you’re proving that darkness doesn’t win.
Catchphrase: “Joy is your protest. Hope is your weapon.”

Final Challenge
Negativity will always surround you—but it doesn’t have to define you. The choice is simple: you can mirror the complaints, or you can model courage. You can sink with the crowd, or you can shine above it.
“When the world goes dark, even a small light shines bright.”
The Power of Positivity
Positivity is a powerful tool. It can transform your day and the days of those around you. When you choose to focus on the good, you create a ripple effect. Others will notice your light and may even be inspired to shine their own.
Create a Positive Environment
Surround yourself with uplifting people. Engage in activities that bring you joy. Whether it’s a hobby, a sport, or simply spending time with loved ones, make sure you fill your life with positivity.
The Importance of Gratitude
Gratitude is a game changer. Each day, take a moment to reflect on what you are thankful for. This practice can shift your mindset and help you see the beauty in everyday life.
Share Your Light
Don’t keep your positivity to yourself. Share it with others. A kind word, a compliment, or a simple smile can brighten someone’s day. Remember, your light can be a beacon of hope for those who are struggling.
Embrace Challenges
Life will throw challenges your way. Instead of letting negativity take over, embrace these challenges as opportunities for growth. Each obstacle you overcome strengthens your resilience and deepens your understanding of joy.
Conclusion
In a world filled with negativity, you have the power to choose joy. By guarding your atmosphere, filtering negativity, speaking life, anchoring yourself, and choosing joy as rebellion, you can create a positive life. Remember, positivity is contagious, so let your light shine brightly.
“When the world goes dark, even a small light shines bright.”
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